People to Avoid to Grow - Gossipers (7 of 15)

Have you ever felt drained after hearing someone gossip? What if I told you that avoiding gossipers could actually make you a stronger, happier person?

Research from Stanford University (2019) shows that gossip increases stress and damages trust in relationships. Meanwhile, a study by the University of Amsterdam (2020) found that avoiding gossip fosters healthier, more cooperative environments.

Think about it: every time you engage in gossip, you're not just hurting someone else—you’re also hurting yourself. Gossip creates negativity, mistrust, and even divides families and teams. But there’s a way out!

Here are two simple steps to break free:

Pause and reflect: When someone starts gossiping, ask yourself, 'Is this helping anyone?' If not, step away or change the topic.

Choose your circle wisely: Surround yourself with people who lift others up, not tear them down.

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Sources

Stanford University (2019). "The Psychological Impact of Gossip on Relationships."

University of Amsterdam (2020). "Gossip and Group Dynamics: Building or Breaking Trust."