Are We Failing Our Kids?
What if the most powerful way to prevent tragedy is something as simple as paying attention?
Picture a teenager, lost in the crowd at school, feeling invisible. At home, his parents are always busy, distracted by work and worries. He starts to withdraw, his pain growing quietly, unnoticed. But then, one day, a teacher stops, looks him in the eye, and asks, “How are you, really?” That moment of care becomes a turning point. The teacher reaches out to his parents, who begin to listen, to ask, to care. Slowly, hope returns. The boy starts to believe he matters.
Stories like this are more common than we think. When young people feel unseen or unsupported, their struggles can grow in silence—sometimes with heartbreaking consequences.
But there is hope. Science shows that when families offer emotional support and pay attention, they can protect their children from violence and despair. A review published in the journal Adolescent Health, Medicine and Therapeutics found that family support programs significantly improve adolescent mental and behavioral health, especially when they include emotional and instructional support. Another study in Frontiers in Psychology highlights that supportive interactions between families, schools, and communities lead to fewer disruptive behaviors and better emotional well-being in children and teens. And recent research in Frontiers in Psychology (2022) confirms that family support and open communication are key to improving students’ mental health, especially after difficult times.
So, what if we all made the choice to notice, to listen, and to care—every single day?
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Sources:
Kuhn, E. S., & Laird, R. D. (2014). "Family support programs and adolescent mental health: review of evidence." https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4096456/
García-Carrión, R., Villarejo-Carballido, B., & Villardón-Gallego, L. (2019). "Children and Adolescents Mental Health: A Systematic Review of Interaction-Based Interventions in Schools and Communities." https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6491840/
Yang, C., Gao, H., Li, Y., Wang, E., Wang, N., & Wang, Q. (2022). "Analyzing the role of family support, coping strategies and social support in improving the mental health of students: Evidence from post COVID-19." https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9822709/
